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為了四美元的爭議--羅尚仁牧師

10/16/2016

 
​美國哈佛大學一位副教授為了4美元與當地中國川菜館較勁,引來網上一堆熱吵、熱潮與熱嘲,值得嗎?起因是此副教授埃德爾曼在網上訂購當地中餐館”四川花園”的外賣,根據網上價格是$53.35,但收到帳單時卻為$57.35,比價格表高$4元,為此這位哈佛大學雙博士學位的老師,又是經濟及法律專家,立刻發送郵件,提出收費不實的抗議。其實對消費者權益受損的抗議是人之常情,也是無可厚非的。餐館負責人迅速有禮的回應,是因為網上價格沒有最新的更新,價格其實已經調整了,對商家而言,這是實情也可理解。然而,埃德爾曼心存不滿,又搬出法律指責這是”嚴重違規”的行為,且對”超額收費”部分要收3倍賠償,就是美金$12元,對此,餐館也應允賠付此金額作補償。
 
本來可以就此落幕,然而,埃德爾曼進一步的上報相關部門,要求要給過去每一位受影響的客人退款。並提出要和中餐館的法律人士對質!有至於為4 美元來這麼大陣仗嗎?有必要嗎?網民的意見不一,有人認為教授沒什麼不對,目的是爭取自己的權益;有人支持教授,打擊欺詐、不縱容犯罪;有人教訓勿以善小而不為、勿以惡小而為之!另外有人認為中餐館已經又道歉、又賠償,而且廣告上也有註明價格可能變動,更何況當顧客反應後,他們也願意立刻更正改進,何苦相逼要走法律程序呢!真是見人見智。
 
當埃德爾曼把此事的相關資訊及郵件曝光送到Boston.com,結果大出所料,輿論卻一面倒地偏向弱勢的中餐館。教授被評為「網際網路上最不喜歡的傢伙」,最終,他在自己的網站上發出聲明,為此事道歉:「我意識到我的表現過火了。…我很抱歉,我會在未來努力做好。我已經聯繫中餐館經理,也會當面向他本人道歉。」同時,他也向哈佛的學生道歉說:「我相信一個人的行為不應該讓其他人來承擔。」此言辭為的是維護哈佛的聲譽與平息學生的嘘聲。我個人認為這是一場公義與慈愛的矛盾之爭,網民眾人的心是傾向憐憫與恩慈的。以愛勝過、以恩勝義。
 
讓我們一起學習功課與共勉。
 
第一,勿以惡小而為之!錯雖小,仍是錯,罪雖小仍是不討神喜悅。讓我們責己以嚴,待人以寛。
 
第二,坦誠認錯反而讓人容易接納。認真面對問題,真誠改正且提出合理的解決方案,讓受害人心悅誠服。
 
第三,得饒人處且饒人。神有絕對的聖潔與公義,尚且憐憫我們的過犯,我們又為何不能或不願寛恕與接納人呢?
 
親愛的兄姊們,讓我們不會贏了面子卻失了裡子,贏在口而失了心,贏了世界而錯失永生的機會。願主耶穌幫助我們,在一切的事上成就神旨意、榮耀主聖名!!

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