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基督徒的生活 – 夫妻         徐天弟兄

9/16/2018

 
    基督徒的家庭生活中,最主要的是夫妻生活。一個夫妻生活不正常的基督徒,他的整個家庭生活就談不上正常,更談不上平安和喜樂。

    聖經裡對夫妻都有專門的教導。做丈夫的要捨己愛妻,做妻子的要順服丈夫。這經文基督徒都能背,可就是很難行出來。為什麼呢?根本問題是我們太自私。有一個丈夫說,“老婆,你只要事事順服我,我一定會捨己愛你的。”他老婆說,“你只要捨己愛我,我也一定會凡事順服你的。”兩人都在等對方率先行動,就是不肯自己先走一步。弟兄姐妹們,遵行神的真理是不能帶條件的。真正的愛也是不帶條件的。婚姻有一個基本條件,就是犧牲自己討對方歡喜, 要體會對方的需要,感覺對方的痛苦和喜樂,  要站在對方的立場明白對方,也要站在對方的立場明白自己。一個主觀自私的人要想得到美滿幸福的夫妻生活,一定得下很大的功夫。但我們一定要相信,只要遵行神的話語,一定會嚐到神真理的美善。

    ​基督徒的夫妻生活不一定是一帆風順,問題是有了難處或矛盾以後如何對待。首先,夫妻之間不論有無矛盾,都要常常溝通,真誠交換意見,相互理解。有了矛盾更是不能冷處理。作為基督徒夫妻,兩人必須自己認罪,也必須互相赦免。因為基督徒做錯了事,就得承認錯,不能蓋著,不能心裡想,只要下次不做就是了。認錯是要有勇氣的,即使在自己的配偶面前。不過,如果我們有捨己愛妻愛夫之心,我們的面子又算得了什麼呢。當我們將自己的面子撕下的時候,也是神最喜悅我們的時候。當然,對方認了錯,另一方也要學會赦免,不能窮追猛打,不能耿耿於懷。愛是不計算,就是不計算別人的惡。赦免別人的罪,就要忘記這個罪,將它丟在一邊從此不提,這樣神就會將屬天的福氣加添在這個家庭裡了。

    一對同心合一行在神的旨意中的夫妻,是世間最美好的夫妻。因為他們靠著主的恩典相互扶持鼓勵,在平淡甚至艱難困苦的環境裡,也能和和美美過著甜蜜溫馨的生活。一個不能在家裡和配偶同心的人,是很難在教會裡和弟兄姐妹同心合一的。一個剛剛在家和配偶大吵大鬧的人,怎能在教會裡和弟兄姐妹一起唱哈里路亞呢?在家庭裡和睦的人,在教會裡才能和睦。好的教會一定要好的夫妻來扶持。


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