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​論大事要直接以避免誤會--羅尚仁牧師

8/27/2017

 
有一對夫妻感情很好,有一天,太太去看專科醫生,她要先生陪她一起去。經過仔細檢查後,醫生故意打發太太離開去拿藥,悄悄地對先生說:「你太太的病非常嚴重,她需要些特別的治療,不然情況可能不樂觀。」。先生鎮定的回答:「你儘管說,我一定盡全力。」醫生說:「每天下班後你必須幫她洗衣煮飯,盡快買機票帶她到國外散心,還有不要忘了送她鑽石。」當先生和太太開車回家時,太太轉頭問先生說:「關於我的身體檢查,醫生說了什麼?」先生回答:「妳快死了。」
其實在這個故事裡面,太太只是得憂鬱症,醫生特別好心,所要傳達的是要先生對太太好一點,但是他的說辭有點誇大,他專業的建議或生活的應用有一點過頭,反而隱藏了事實的真相,容易讓人誤解。同樣的先生好像誤會了醫生的意思,他也誇大的把醫生所講的狀況,轉變成為絕症,宣告成為妳快要死了。這在我們的生活裡面是經常會有的,先生太太共同的錯誤,就是沒有深入去明白事情的真相,卻只從表面的意會而直接認定,難怪會產生誤會。讓我們從這個故事學習幾個功課:
 
第一、論大事要直接以避免誤會。傳遞重要信息詩,不要拐彎抹角,要避免誤會,反而把重要的事情耽誤了。如有疑點,寧可把事情說清楚,直接把情況講解清楚。
 
第二、論繁事要簡潔以避免離題。解釋繁重的事詩,避免說一些拉拉雜雜的枝節,沒有必要的東西,反而離開主題,或者讓人有更多想入非非、令人遐想的空間。

第三、論錯事要溫柔以避免傷害。批評要像清晨的甘露一樣,溫柔的賜下露雨水,但是卻不會傷害花草樹木的根部。
 
親愛的弟兄姊妹們,當我們在查考聖經的時候,我們是不是也夾雜了太多自己的意思,以至於扭曲了聖經原意,扭曲了神的旨意,讓聽的人誤入歧途,誤會了神的心意,或誤會神的愛與恩典。新約聖經約翰福音第三章十六節:神愛世人,甚至將他的獨生子,賜給他們,叫一切信他的,不至滅亡,反得永生!這句話是何等的簡潔有力,卻道出神的愛。
親愛的朋友們,得永生是人生的第一大事。神愛你,祂渴望你成為祂的兒女,永遠永遠享受祂的愛、享受祂的豐盛恩典。

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