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貼  標  籤--羅尚仁牧師

1/24/2016

 
​去過英國倫敦旅遊的人一定不會錯過西敏寺的鐘塔(The Big Ben),中文稱之為”大笨鐘”,它座落在英國倫泰晤士河畔,在倫敦的市區,是倫敦的地標,是極俱代表性的建築,也是旅遊景點。它建於1858年4月10日,是英國最大的鐘,也是世界第三高的鐘樓,鐘塔高310英呎,重13.5噸約為一隻小象的重量,外墻有向東西北四個巨大的鐘面,向世人指示時間。大笨鐘除了是英國人引以為傲建築,也是慶祝跨年守歲的聚集地,跨年時,各大媒體將大笨鐘的聲音傳到全國,不儘迎接新的一年來到,也藉著鐘聲傳遞祝福與平安的信息來溫暖人心。不儘如此,每年的陣亡將士紀念日也會在大笨鐘鐘聲敲響後開始默哀紀念。
 
為什麼稱為”大笨鐘”呢?應該是英文發音”BEN”的諧音接近是”笨”。然而對這麼一個在英國人看來這麼有文化、有歷史、有價值、有意義的建築,稱之為”笨”是否很不恰當且不恭敬呢?從這名字,我看到的是”人貼的標籤”。人們經常會給人、事、物貼上標籤,而這標籤好或壞、準不準確、恰不恰當各有不同看法。這”大笨鐘”若有知 ,一定會叫屈,我那裏”笨”呢?為何給我一個”笨”的標籤呢?其實,日常生活中,我們常常也會遇到相同的情況。你曾被人罵笨蛋、白痴、無知、一無所知…你曾被人罵廢物、垃圾、人渣、一無所是嗎?你曾被人罵為怪物、怪咖、惡魔嗎?無論對方是出於有意或無意,出於一時衝動或出於誤會,聽到的人都不好受,這樣的傷害是直指人心是殺人不見血的,讓我們學習幾個功課。
 
第一、不要隨意給人貼標籤。聖經上說: 「凡罵弟兄是拉加的(無用)難免公會的審斷;凡罵弟兄是魔(笨蛋)的,難免地獄的火。 」(太5:22)請不要讓我們的無心之言、無心之過,卻給人帶來一生的痛苦。讓我們常用神的話語來鼓勵、安慰、勸勉人。
 
第二、當別人給我標籤時。不要生氣、不要難過、不要氣餒,要確信我的價值在乎神,不要讓別人錯誤的看法來誤導我的價值觀,因為主耶穌用重價—就是祂自己的寶血救贖了我,我的肯定、我的價值、我的未來、都在於我的主耶穌!
 
第三、不要以惡報惡、不要以辱罵還辱罵、不要以標籤還標籤,反倒要祝福;因為人送出去的禮物,若對方不接受,就只好自己收回去。進一步而言,「你們若為基督的名受辱罵,便是有福的;因為神榮耀的靈常住在你們身上。 」(彼前4:14)
 
親愛的兄姊們,讓我們善用神給我們的生命氣息,去影響生命、去造就生命,讓我們善用神給我們的口、舌、去安慰憂傷心靈、去鼓勵軟弱後退心靈,讓我們善用神給我們的時間及資源去傳主愛、傳主恩,但願榮耀歸我主耶穌基督!

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