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​尊重會讓人感覺被愛--羅尚仁  牧師

7/30/2017

 
    電梯裏常常會有一面鏡子,你知道這是作什麼用的嗎?我猜想90%的人會與我一樣,以為這面鏡子是給人正衣冠、整理儀容用的。真正的答案是:當有殘疾人坐著輪椅進電梯的時候,他們可以不必費力地轉輪椅或轉過身來,就能從鏡子的反射裏看到樓層顯示燈。從這裡就可以看到電梯的設計,在小細節上已經考慮到殘疾人的不方便,深層的看到他們的需要,尊重到他們的權益。其實不僅公司為了產品的行銷與公司的形象需要如此“尊重” 殘疾人的權益,社會對於殘疾人、邊緣人的需要,國家對於少數民族的聲音,也應該有如此的體貼與心意,這就是尊重、這就是愛、這就是憐憫!
 
    好幾次我工作比較晚回家的時候,當我掏出鑰匙要開門的時候,可以感受到在裡面的女兒急忙地出來替我開門。雖然開門是一個小動作,再加上輕輕的問個好,但卻給我帶來極大的溫暖與安慰,因為她的細心關懷、尊重的心意,都在這小小的動作裡面讓我可以感受得到。從這裡就可以看到,尊重會讓人感覺溫暖、讓人感覺如沐春風,讓人感覺被愛、讓人感覺存在的價值。所以尊重可以帶來人與人之間的親密關係。有幾次女兒要出去買東西,她都已經走出門了,仍然回頭問一句:「爸爸,有沒有什麼需要我可以幫你買的?」這一個回頭,這一句問話,就代表尊重、就是關心、就是愛、也帶著無限的體恤。從這裡就可以再一次看到,尊重是所有健康、良好關係的關鍵。女兒每次打開冰箱,看到想吃的東西,都會問一下:我可以吃這個嗎?特別是有親戚朋友從家鄉帶來的土產或特產,女兒也都會問一下:我可以吃這個嗎?想當然爾,這是你父母的家,所有的東西你都可以吃!然而,多問一下,就代表著尊重!從這裡就可以看到,尊重也是人際關係的重要基礎之一。
 
    親愛的朋友們,你是否經常檢測自己,是否與人有良好的關係?是否因著缺乏溝通而有隔閡?是否失去了那份體貼?是否失去了那份尊重?讓我告訴你一個秘訣,就是相信主耶穌基督作你的救主,讓主耶穌賜福你一個豐盛的生命,讓祂掌管你的一生,讓祂賜給你大能去恢復與人之間的關係,讓祂賜給你豐富的愛,去愛那些身邊有需要的人。讓聖靈教導你去關心別人、體貼別人、尊重別人,讓聖靈引導你走當行的道路、恩典的道路。但願你得著一切屬天的福分,得勝的能力,榮耀的冠冕。

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