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這塊餅乾是誰配得?--羅尚仁牧師

2/22/2015

 
有一個研究機構做一個類似如下的測驗:由四人組成一個小組,從他們當中自由選出組長來,同時給他們五塊餅乾,請他們討論如何來分配。當然每一小組共同面對的問題就是每一人分一塊餅乾之後,多出來的那一塊要如何分配?各位兄姊們,如果你是在場中的一位組員或小組長,想一想你會如何決定?

        小組長A首先發言:「身為小組長要花更多時間心力來服務大家,所以這塊餅歸我。」頗有資本主義社會強勢領導風味。第二位組員B發言:「在我的文化背景中,多以謙和禮讓為先,所以我願意讓出爭取這餅乾的權利,至於給誰,我不介意。」頗有中國儒家謙和禮讓仁愛的精神。第三位組員C發言:「我是屬於弱勢群體,長期處在缺乏狀態,你們這些處豐富優勢的人不應該再爭了,這塊餅是歸我的。即或不然,也應該切開來平分,縱使打碎它也在所不惜。」頗有霸王硬上弓的強硬霸氣。第四位組員D發言:「首先謝謝B的愛心,願意讓出這餅乾的權利,我也願意效法這精神,我把自己僅有的這一塊也給出來,分配辨法建議如下:讓勞苦功高的A拿B的餅乾當做獎勵,我這塊就給C當做補償。如此各有所得,成為三贏的局面。」頗有耶穌基督捨己成全別人的胸襟。其實,這並不是最後的結果,因為D的捨己大愛與捨己的義舉,大家改推D為小組長。C也認為D現在才是最窮、最缺的人,因為他一塊餅乾都沒有,因此把原屬D的那一塊還給D,而A也良心發現應該把小組長多得的一份歸給名至實歸的新小組長D,真是皆大歡喜且人人心甘情願的達成共識。

    各位兄姊們,我們是否從測驗中學到什麼功課?

第一,組員A的巧取強奪只會更另人反感與反彈,惟有公平公義才是王道。聖經說:不要以惡報惡,眾人以為美的事要留心去做。(羅12:17)你們要謹慎,無論是誰都不可以惡報惡,或是彼此相待或是待眾人,常要追求良善。(帖前5:15)

第二,除了組員D,人人都以自我為中心,首先考慮到的是自己的利益,如此一來就彼此紛爭不休,甚至不惜頭破血流。縱使有人有謙讓的品格,如組員B,但仍然是自掃門前雪,不管他人瓦上霜,其中問題仍舊存在。但若我們轉眼以神為中心,以基督的心為心,如此就能看到別人的需要也是我們的責任,大家可以彼此幫補,彼此成全,來彼此建立、彼此建造。

第三,惟有願意捨才會有所得。主耶穌為全人類捨命、成就了救恩,祂的犧牲,讓一切相信的人得拯救、得永生。

親愛的兄姊們,讓我們效法主耶穌的愛,願意犧牲我們一點時間去傳福音,奉獻一點愛去幫助有需要人,讓你成為最終的贏家,為主得人,願一切榮耀歸主耶穌基督。


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